I've added a friend (rl) onto my steam friends, unfortunately he has his message alert turned off, so i can't get attention. when i tried viewing his server info, it said he was on some rp server, but when i went on the server he was not there. His brother (who i also added) doesn't show up on the server info at all, but when i click to view his server info it brings me to that rp server's info. So whats up with this? is it because they have not actually accepted my request, or what. Also, when i called his name out in the server, and looked for him for half an hour he was i still didn't find him.